When it comes to sex, the best time a person has ever had will probably not be as memorable at their first time. If you or the person that you are seeing is a virgin, when you choose to have sex for the first time, you will want to make it as comfortable and intimate for both of you.

Before any relationship reaches the level of a sexual relationship, you will first want to be honest with your partner. Tell them if you are a virgin so that they are not surprised if you feel uncomfortable or say no at a certain point. This will let the more experienced partner plan the perfect evening for creating a closer bond.

Start the evening off romantic. Go out to dinner, see a romantic movie—do all the things that will bring you closer to your partner. Then, you will want to set the mood for the rest of the evening. Scented candles and soft, sensual music will usually do it. And once you begin getting closer, take it slow. If your partner is willing to give their virginity to you, then you will want to do everything right. So make sure everyone is comfortable and ready for the next step.